He never changed despite stardom, says Sharmila Tagore

Dharmendra was just different, a man who stayed connected to his roots and never let stardom change his attitude towards people till the very end, veteran actor Sharmila Tagore said on Monday (November 24, 2025), remembering her co-star of classics such as Satyakam and Chupke Chupke.

Dharmendra died on Monday at the age of 89 after prolonged illness.

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Ms. Tagore has only fond memories of the man behind the star – an affable and cooperative human being who met everyone, whether rich or poor, with the same warmth.

“I did not find any change in him till the end. As an actor, of course, he was wonderful to act with, and in his attitude towards the crowd or people on the set, he was the same affable, cooperative person. He would meet with people, whether rich or poor, with equal warmth. I have seen him hugging a man on the streets without any hesitation.

“He was just different. He never forgot his roots and he would talk about it openly. He was, as they say, a man of the earth and he remained very close to his real self… I didn’t see any change in him with stardom and popularity,” she told PTI.

Dharmendra and Ms. Tagore worked on a number of movies in Hindi cinema but their pairing in filmmaker Hrishikesh Mukherjee’s films stand out even today.

They collaborated on Anupama and Satyakam, both cited among their best films. Their most popular film with Mukherjee was the comedy drama Chupke Chupke, in which Dharmendra played a botany professor who pretended to be a driver.

“For ‘Chupke Chupke’, he should have got the National Award. He was brilliant. But I think those days they thought comedy was not… only a serious actor should receive awards, something like that, maybe.” Dharmendra also worked with Mukherjee on Majhli Didi with Meena Kumari, Guddi with Jaya Bachchan, and Chaitali with Saira Banu.

Ms. Tagore said the director would often tease Dharmendra for playing relatable characters in his movies, contrary to the actor’s well-established “muscle man” image in mainstream Bollywood movies. “Hrishida would tease him. He would tell Dharamji, ‘Forget that you are Dharmendra, the muscle man. Here you are playing a very good role’… He would make us laugh… All of us were very relaxed on Hrishida’s set… I think Dharam liked that atmosphere where he wasn’t treated specially or anything. And we did very good films together from Satyakam to Chupke Chupke and Anupama. They were all very good films.”

Accommodative star

Ms. Tagore said she still remembers how Dharmendra extended his shooting hours for her during the making of Mere Hamdam Mere Dost.

“I was doing double shift – I was shooting from 7 to 2 for another film, and from 2 to 10, I was working for Mere Hamdam Mere Dost. And we were filming the song, ‘Chhalka ye jaam’. And till 10 o’clock, we couldn’t finish the song. So the director requested me to come the next day,” Ms.Tagore recalled.

The actor said she already had allocated the next daymorning shift for another film the next day and in the evening she had to leave for Kolkata as her husband, cricketer Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi, was playing a test match.

“I had planned to do that other shooting till 2 o’clock and then catch the 4 o’clock flight or something like that to Kolkata… I requested Dharam if he could extend and finish the song. It was already 10 o’clock… He agreed and we finished the song. Those were mad days. “We shot the song till six in the morning… Whenever they (crew) were lighting up for the shot, he would go and sleep or rest in the makeup room. We were shooting at Kardar studio, which doesn’t exist now… He was so sweet. I’ll forever remember that gesture. I can’t think of anybody else who would have done that. They would have said, ‘Rinku (Tagore’s nickname), we love you very much, but we need to sleep.’ Nobody sane would have done it, but Dharam did. He was different. I was forever grateful to him.”

The two actors also worked together in Yakeen, Ek Mahal Ho Sapano Ka, Devar, and Sunny.